"I thought I was an introvert, but after I transitioned and put on makeup and long hair, I realized I never shut up. I want to get to know people". -A transwoman realizes that her hesitancy to try talking to people is about how he might have been viewed doing this as a man. - KotakuInAction

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"I thought I was an introvert, but after I transitioned and put on makeup and long hair, I realized I never shut up. I want to get to know people". -A transwoman realizes that her hesitancy to try talking to people is about how he might have been viewed doing this as a man. (www.twitch.tv)

posted 3 years ago by nankingRoastie 3 years ago by nankingRoastie +4 / -2

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– Txiribiton 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

And now he will know less people.

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– SuicideEnthusiast 0 points 2 years ago +1 / -1

You just got finished reading that he's meeting more people. The only way forward is cope and this is the best cope.

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